MEN WOMEN COUPLES CLASSES
Explore stories of people just like you. While we are all unique, many of the themes and threads of our experience are similar. You are not alone.
FROM MEN
"I suffered from erectile dysfunction (ED) for about three years due to a traumatic relationship experience. I was caught in a vicious cycle of insecurity and unable to get an erection with a partner, and was wondering if I would ever have sex again. It is thanks to Kai that I now have a healthy sex life. Due to her loving acceptance, moment-by-moment sensitivity and attunement, and empathy, I was able to reclaim that part of my life. I cannot recommend her more highly. She is a gifted healer." -MC, Lawyer, Age 55
"Kai's combination of tantric spirituality and a down-to-earth, practical approach is really unique and effective and working with her probably supplanted months (if not years) of work with a more traditional therapist. It was really easy to establish rapport and trust with her. I felt that she catered her practice to my particular needs and situation and nothing felt rote or "by the book." Most importantly, I feel that it's worked. I'm more confident about sex than I've ever been. And because Kai's approach has been tailored to me, my life, and my personal practices, it's been much easier to stick to and integrate permanently into my life." -KD, C-Level Tech Executive, Male, Age 34
"I was married for almost 20 years and my ex-wife was quite happy when sex was over quickly. However, as a newly single man, I found that I had next to no endurance (I'd orgasm almost right away, sometimes even before entering). I can't believe what I'm now capable of in terms of lasting thanks to Kai's help. I have also gained confidence and learned a lot of other skills that I didn't even know I lacked that have made me a much better lover. I never expected I'd ever have epic sex, but now I can and do!" -Michael T., San Francisco, Age 46
"I don't do well with formulaic approaches. I had tried two self-improvement workshops including one very well-known one, and I had gone to a therapist that had some stereotype of my problems, and I didn't find those experiences particularly useful. In contrast, with Kai I felt truly "met" and understood. Once I was able to unload my stories/history, Kai helped me get past my head and into my issues in a full-body way that was healing and really helpful." -Jack, Male, Age 45
FROM WOMEN
"Just dropping a quick note to let you know that we're having more sex and most of the time it's not painful!!! I'm so excited and T is really happy too (which is not surprising, but it's still awesome).
We laugh and are so relaxed together! I can't believe that I went from avoiding sex because it was painful each and every time to actually enjoying it (and only having pain once in a while). I'm so grateful to you for helping me (and us) through this!" -Female Client, Married, Age 45
We laugh and are so relaxed together! I can't believe that I went from avoiding sex because it was painful each and every time to actually enjoying it (and only having pain once in a while). I'm so grateful to you for helping me (and us) through this!" -Female Client, Married, Age 45
"Kai is a beautiful teacher with deep wisdom and insight. She shines with love." -Jane Breneman, RN, CMT, ACTE
"When I first came to see Kai, I was in a terrible place in life emotionally, was stressed out everyday from work and didn't know how to get out of a really bad situation. She made me feel like there was hope , helped me realize my potential and how I could actually help myself. I was also very moved by the initial session's body work because she helped me release and deal with the grief from my father's death three years ago. The body work was very interesting. Initially I was hesitant because I didn't really understand how or why it should work, but during the session I was suddenly overcome with emotions I hadn't realized were there. Kai's approach is unlike any other help I've sought before and has been wonderfully effective for me." -G.C., Female, Age 30
"I initially came to see Kai because my friend insisted that I should. I was having a hard time having orgasms with my partner and I wanted to deepen our spiritual and emotional connection. Kai really helped me connect to my own body and my partner more fully.
I had seen both a psychiatrist/psychtherapist (whose focus was teaching mindfulness over prescribing drugs) and worked with a Tantra yoga teacher, but I find Kai's services unique because it's the only combination of elements of both that I have ever come across.
Not only am I more confident sexually, I have also made a couple of major life changes as a result of my work with Kai. I am nervous about the transitions but also really excited. I am so grateful for Kai and the work that she does!" -V.N., Female, Age 30
I had seen both a psychiatrist/psychtherapist (whose focus was teaching mindfulness over prescribing drugs) and worked with a Tantra yoga teacher, but I find Kai's services unique because it's the only combination of elements of both that I have ever come across.
Not only am I more confident sexually, I have also made a couple of major life changes as a result of my work with Kai. I am nervous about the transitions but also really excited. I am so grateful for Kai and the work that she does!" -V.N., Female, Age 30
"Kai has a unique blend of a logical mindset and spiritual awareness. She is highly intuitive, empathic and compassionate, and isn't afraid to be emotionally caring and supportive. Kai works with me through the heart and has really helped me guide myself through my feelings.
I am a stronger, more empowered and more resilient person now. As a result of my work with Kai, I feel like I am better at choosing what's right for me and I have more confidence to go after my goals. In fact, since I started working with Kai, I feel like I am a different person. How do I know? Because four months into our work together, I re-did my intake form and couldn't believe how much had shifted in my life. I've worked with Kai for nine months and made more progress with Kai in just the first five sessions than I did with two therapists and one hypnotherapist combined.
If you're looking for a coach to help you get your life straight, it would be hard to find someone better. Kai is exceptional."
- I.K., Female, Age 32, Oakland, CA
I am a stronger, more empowered and more resilient person now. As a result of my work with Kai, I feel like I am better at choosing what's right for me and I have more confidence to go after my goals. In fact, since I started working with Kai, I feel like I am a different person. How do I know? Because four months into our work together, I re-did my intake form and couldn't believe how much had shifted in my life. I've worked with Kai for nine months and made more progress with Kai in just the first five sessions than I did with two therapists and one hypnotherapist combined.
If you're looking for a coach to help you get your life straight, it would be hard to find someone better. Kai is exceptional."
- I.K., Female, Age 32, Oakland, CA
"Kai embodies the essence of caring, kindness, warmth, and generosity of spirit." -Vicki Reiner, Counselor
FROM COUPLES
"My husband and I were at an impass when we sought Kai's help. She really helped us find a solution and gain trust in our relationship." -Sara Biewen, Psychotherapist
"Working with you literally changed my life. I lived in a virtually sexless marriage for over 10 years. Last night I used what I learned from you over the weekend and my wife couldn't get enough of me. 15 minutes after we made love she came back for more. That never happened before. She was so happy she even told our couples' therapist about it today. Thank you!" -Bill, San Francisco
FROM CLASSES/WORKSHOPS
"Kai is a powerful presence and beautiful soul, and models a high level of self love. She creates huge heart space and safe containers for the group, gently coaxing us to explore beyond our comfortable boundaries." -Amy M., Mother of 2
"The classes I've taken from Kai have opened me up to experiencing bodily pleasure in all its forms. She has helped change my perception of what real pleasure can be." -Amy, British Coumbia, Canada
